New Rule: Leave people alone to live the lives they say they want or act like they want. If someone says they don’t want something i.e. a relationship why not believe them and step off? Only getting half of them or none of what you want? Conflicting actions and words? Unless you have a degree in sales or is a full time litigator you have a very slim chance of enlisting them to your agenda. Do you want to have to convince or do you want to be chosen? C’mon now….fix your hair, dry your eyes, dust yourself off and drop a note and a beautiful picture of yourself in the mail so you can get the reminder in a few days …write it first though….